Getting a free night to go eat out at a restaurant can be a challenge. Aside from the expenses, there’s the question of who will take care of the kids, where to go and how to get there. As a result, it’s important to know how to spend your dollars—and what kind of restaurants and dishes to avoid on your special date nights. Like any other industry, there are plenty of inside secrets and other things to know to truly have the best night out possible. So with no further ado, here are 35 restaurant red flags.